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How to be a Chinese, by a Chinese person

A complete guide on how to be a Chinese

I was talking to my boyfriend about how I liked my new life in the UK and the roasted, boiled, mashed and baked beans. “I feel like an English”, I said .

“That is good,” he said. My boyfriend, an Australian, spent the last 12 years living in four different foreign countries including China. “ A foreigner could never feel like that in China.”

It was not the first time I heard about this opinion. Last month, Mark Kitto, an English who once fought on the frontline of free speech and political freedom in China for more than ten years, wrote an article titled you’ll never be Chinese, before he left/ fled out of the country:

 A China that leads the world will not offer the chance to be Chinese, because it is impossible to become Chinese. Nor is the Chinese Communist Party entirely averse to condoning slavery.”

 Kitto then carries on explaining the anti-foreign-government sentiment cultivated by the communist government, the corruption in its own legal system, the booming nationalism and hyper-egoism that prevents a foreign people to really have a life and career in the country.

 As a Chinese expert, Kitto has some great insights into the Chinese society. But I would suggest that there are ways by which you, my reader, wherever you are from, can be a Chinese.

Apart from wearing fake glasses and drinking boiled water, you need some basic lessons in life. The most important one is to feel insecure, always.

To be a Chinese you had to learn to feel insecure before you started to feel anything at all.

The hospital in which you were born just gave dozens of people HIV because the facilities were never properly disinfected.

The kindergarten you went to just had a scandal of a care-worker abusing a toddler. You better watch out after school because ax-wielding men were killing school kids.

Going back home safely but you might still be fed by melamine-tainted milk that would guarantee you some kidney stone. What is even better?  No body would pay your medical bill, because you were not yet employed.

So you needed to get employed before you could develop a kidney stone. To get employed, you need to get a degree, to get a degree, you need to go to a college.

For the coming ten years you decided to let the notorious college entrance exam ruin your life. To compete with 10 million others for limited position in 39 top universities in the country, you gave up a social life, you gave up entertaining, you even gave up sleeping.

 But you were perseverant and hardworking. When your competitors were busy jumping out of their building, being arrested for cheating, or being sent to mental facilities, you survived and entered a top university.

 But before long you would feel that you were cheated. The University life taught you little more than Korea Soap-Opera or World of Warcraft does.

Canned in one room with five to six others, you enjoyed the “collective life” highly valued in Chinese society. At the same time you were still worried about your kidney stone because most graduates would not find a job. Even if they did, the 300-500 USD monthly salary could hardly support your living.

 So you went back to your parents, dig from their savings for the rainy days. You were worried, you prayed to the good heaven that they would not fall ill, because there was no effective pension scheme and more likely, you would have to support both of them, because you were the only child.

 But that does not matter, they will die very soon. You think. Your life was the key. So you spend every penny of their money to secure an apartment 20 miles away from your work place.

Then you would spend the rest of your life paying mortgage, your medical bills, your parents medical bills, and when you have a baby, you have to pay its medical bill, because it might have just got two extra of boobs from some hormone-tainted milk. Or it could die from fake vaccines.

Only after you have learned to feel insecure, can you be a Chinese.

 Then you will be able to sit calmly watch a women stepping on a kitty under her heels while having your breakfast because you have seen people being trampled to death.

You can quickly scan a headline saying that 47 people have just been killed by a collapsed bridge,  and move on smoothly to celebrity news, because things like that happen all the time and they interest you no more than the topless photo of Kate Middleton.

You care little about politics because there is nothing for you to care about. And if you ask too many questions or speak too loud, you will be locked up.

That’s how to be a Chinese.

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9 thoughts on “How to be a Chinese, by a Chinese person

  1. Go Chloe! 🙂


    Posted by The Wanderlust Gene | October 13, 2012, 2:55 pm
  2. This is a great post. It does miss one key point, responding to those that say you can never be Chinese. I would like to see your thoughts on that in more detail.


    Posted by Shawn Mahoney | October 15, 2012, 6:12 pm
  3. Reblogged this on middlekingdom1of10boyz and commented:
    I have often wondered how to be or to feel Chinese. Doubt I will ever know. This is one man’s version. Not pretty. My optimist point of view screams that this isn’t possible and can’t be true. However, I see way too many reasons to believe it while I am living here. I can’t stand being a pessimist.


    Posted by 1of10boyz | October 21, 2012, 6:57 pm
  4. If I am not mistaken, you are only talking about the Chinese who have it “made”. How about the really disadvantaged Chinese who still live in the country side, or am I miss-reading what it means to be Chinese?


    Posted by larrydunbar | December 17, 2012, 2:09 am
  5. Reblogged this on The Image and commented:
    “As a Chinese expert, Kitto has some great insights into the Chinese society. But I would suggest that there are ways by which you, my reader, wherever you are from, can be a Chinese.”

    As the US prepares to go toe-to-toe with the Chinese in the Pacific, it is best we all learn how to be Chinese, and understand why the Philippines might prefer aligning themselves with the Japanese instead of the Chinese.

    Basically, in the context of the original post, unless you are a country that has something China needs, in the way of structure (US) or resources (Africa), you will at least need to try to be Chinese.

    From the sound of the original post, being Chinese is not something the Philippines, or any other country, would want to attempt to become.

    I am not even sure those still unfortunate Chinese who live in the rural areas of China, and knew what it took to become Chinese, would even attempt such a thing.


    Posted by larrydunbar | December 17, 2012, 2:39 am


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